I consider myself to be a modern guy, very much aware of social norms and customs even though they seem to change daily.
When I see a beautiful woman and want to talk to her, I always get tangled up in my own head. Is it creepy to just start talking to a woman? Because I don’t want to be that creepy guy, but on the other hand you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, so I don’t want to sit idly by. I have been wrestling with this question lately, because I am very enamored with the new budtender at the cannabis dispensary. This is a small town, and we only have one cannabis dispensary, so if I shoot my shot and get embarrassed then going back will be very difficult. I decided that I would take a two step approach to this issue, first by waiting until payday and buying all the cannabis I possibly could. By my math, that would give me enough marijuana to keep me high for a month or so. After that, I go back to the cannabis dispensary the next day and ask her out. This way if I get snubbed and embarrassed, then I don’t have to go back to the cannabis dispensary for a month, and that’s only if I can’t get a friend to make a purchase on my behalf. A more confident man would have just asked for her number on her first day at the cannabis dispensary, but like I said, I get in my own head too much!